Thursday, August 25, 2011

My Beef with “Equality”

I have a real issue with people who state ‘I’m for equality for the sexes!’ whether they be male or female. Seriously, I look at stating equality in this manner the same as someone posturing about how much money they have or how good they are at something or other. My opinion of the sitch is that those who really want to be deemed equal to men or even other races won’t drone on and on about how they want equality, but they will shut their mouths and get the job done.

Yeah, maybe I’m being unrealistic, but I want you to follow me for a second.

Three of the clients that I have to visit in my fulltime job are facilities run by women, VERY capable women I may add. One such client has three different facilities under their umbrella of responsibility, which has a woman overseeing everything from Health and Safety to research and two other women who answer to her. I want to take just a little time to tell you why I respect these women and why I shake my head and all this “WE NEED EQUALITY” crap.

The first client I want to refer to you I met for the very first time late last year. I conducted our appointment trying my damnedest to keep a straight face. Why you ask? Good grief, she was very disappointed in the fact that while we conducted business, her facility wasn’t up to her standards. She wasn’t b!tching about it, nor was she pulling the ‘oh poor me’ card. She just was more than a little embarrassed that I was at her place of business and not everything was done to her level of expectation.


Due to the nature of what I do (think Homer Simpson) and the fact that I signed documents stating that I can’t blog about my full time profession, I can’t tell you the particulars concerning this woman’s effectiveness. However, to give you an idea of what I walked into, (and what shortcomings she was apologizing for) let me give you a visual aid.

Her facility ran like a Swiss clock, that much was PAINFULLY obvious, and her efficiency screamed so loud that she never had to say anything about how she was ‘equal’ to what a man could do. That’s just it, whom do we respect more? The person who brags about how good he is, or the dude who simply gets it done? Here’s one for the equality set, another client of mine had their department run by a man. This dude was decent, nice guy, but not the most effective when I came to management. Late last year I was introduced to his successor as he had moved on. She immediately took the reigns and was deadly serious in her application. On previous visits, I would usually have issues which needed to be worked out with the previous facility manager, a lot of which where ongoing.

This new female manager however…I encounter an issue once…it gets dealt with. Quick, fast, and in a hurry…no joke.

The same goes for my client who has three different facilities run by three women. Precision is how I describe their performance, any issues, which crop up (as they have quite a few people which answer to them so of course, mo’ people, mo’ problems) are dealt with quickly and efficiently with little to no blow-back to be dealt with later. Here is the biggest thing I admire about every single one of these women. All 5 of them are married, and 4 of them have kids. None of these women are confrontational nor do they seem like they are feminists with something to prove. It’s clear as day that they all got their positions the same way effective men get theirs, because they could, and still can, get the job done.

My opinion as it appears to me; if you want to prove that you can hang with men or the majority, then shut up and put your money where your mouth is. Effective men don’t waste their time telling you about how good they are or how good they could be if things where just ‘more equal’; they let their actions do the talking and usually that’s all that’s needed. You don’t have to be a loudmouth career b!tch thinking that doing so will make you equal to men, nor do you gain any ground b!tching about your ‘lack of options’ as a woman or a minority. Hey, I agree that not being male or of the indigenous race can be an immediate setback in situations. I can vouch for the fact that you will have to work twice as hard to get half as far. However, complaining that you don’t get a far shake and that the PTB need to give you a break while you sit on your duff isn’t the way to gain respect or show than you can hang.

You want it, go out and get it.


Monday, August 22, 2011

Kellett Steps in It, Big Time

As I reported on recently, Mary Kellett, the Ellsworth, Maine prosecutor notorious for pursuing flimsy cases, always against men accused of sexual or domestic assaults, has put her foot in it again. Only this time, it appears that her misstep has put her ankle deep in a bear trap.
A recap of the most recent case goes as follows. Keovilaisack Sayasane, 44, was charged with threatening to harm his wife with a hammer in their home. A problem for the prosecution in the case was that Sayasane’s wife was scheduled to testify for the defense.  As the only eyewitness and alleged victim in the case, it could have proven to be an insurmountable obstacle to a conviction.
But the wife had a change of heart about testifying when she was told by Mary Kellett that Sayasane had been convicted of killing his first wife some 25 years earlier. The Bangor Daily News reports that when the judge in the case, Justice Kevin Cuddy, learned of this, he ultimately declared a mistrial, which ended the current proceedings against Sayasane, but allows the prosecution to retry the case.
Sayasane, however, had not killed his first wife. He was convicted of manslaughter in the 1987 stabbing death of a man in Hampden, Maine.

Court transcripts reveal that both defense attorney Jeffry Toothaker and Mary Kellett informed the court that they were both given the erroneous information on Saysane’s conviction by Deputy Attorney General William Stokes, head of the Attorney General’s Office’s criminal division. But Stokes has a strikingly different story. Namely that it never happened.
This is Stoke’s version according to the Bangor Daily News:
Stokes said he never provided any information to Kellett that indicated that the victim in the manslaughter case was Sayasane’s previous wife, or even that the victim was a woman. Stokes said he had no prior knowledge of the case before Kellett contacted him about it, and so had to go look up the information in case summaries that are kept on file at the Attorney General’s Office in Augusta.
The summary, Stokes said, indicates that the victim in the 1986 stabbing was a 21-year old man named Boudone Meuaneboutdy who was a friend of Sayasane’s. He said that is the information he forwarded to Kellett.
“Where the wife part came in, I have no knowledge,” Stokes said.
Now, assuming that Stokes is not lying, Mary Kellett has just been dropped into the fryer.  On the merits of his statement alone, two factors become abundantly clear.
  • Mary Kellett engaged in witness tampering by lying to the alleged victim in the case thus coercing her to withdraw exculpatory testimony.
  • Mary Kellett further perpetrated a fraud on the court by misleading the judge to believe that she had been furnished information from the state AG’s office, when in fact she had been furnished no such information.
There may well be other violations that become apparent as this case is investigated further. But these two points of interest do serve as grounds for further complaints to the Overseers of the Bar in Maine, as well as to the office of Governor Paul LePage and the Office of the State Attorney General.

There is a pending bar complaint on Mary Kellett stemming from the Vladek Filler case that was filed by the National Coalition for Men. That complaint has been investigated and referred to the bar with the recommendation that sanctions against Kellett were warranted.
It was originally the position of AVfM that before a complaint was filed with the bar against Kellett for the Sayasane case that the Filler complaint would be allowed to come to conclusion.  These recent revelations by the state AG of Maine are grounds to revise that decision.

The time for action is now.
On behalf of the people of the United States and in the interest of justice, AVfM will now proceed with a bar complaint against Mary Kellett for the willful fraud of a court of law and for witness tampering in a criminal proceeding. We will also be sending letters of protest and pleas for justice to Governor LePage and to the Attorney General of Maine.
I am also going to call on readers of AVfM to assist with these vital actions as quickly as possible. Please write Governor LePage and the State Attorney General and ask them why, after such demonstrated malfeasance on the part of a Maine state functionary, is she being allowed to continue prosecuting in Maine.

I am also writing Ellsworth District Attorney Carletta Bossano, Mary Kellett’s direct supervisor and the individual that holds the ultimate responsibility for actions that emanate from her office, to demand that Kellett be suspended from duties until her actions are thoroughly investigated. I ask all those interested in justice to do the same.
Finally, if you have a blog or website, no matter how large or small, I ask you to please help us go on the offensive against the Orwellian nightmare happening in Maine by posting this article, in its entirety to your site. Facebook and Twitter users, please do the same, and thank you all for helping us turn up the heat on an ongoing miscarriage of justice.
Remember, if we can just take one corrupt prosecutor out, it will send reverberations throughout the system of feminist governance and will correct an absolute evil going in the state of Maine. Even the Bangor Daily News, previously hesitant to fully address this story, is now smelling blood. Let’s finish this. Let’s FTSU, and I mean NOW.

Originally published at A Voice for Men on August 20, 2011. Reprinted with permission.

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Masculinity Incorporated.

I’ve seen this sort of comment on manosphere blogs only a few times but they irk the sh!t out of me.

“I’m worried about my daughter, I raised her right but what sort of man out there is good enough to marry her.”

“My daughter isn’t like the current sort of entitled women of the West. The issue however, are the guys who act like thugs or pu$$ies.”

Sigh. I’ve encountered this from both genders so don’t think I’m pointing fingers at anyone other than the uninformed (or those running from reality).

Ladies and Gentlemen; I have some really bad news for you and your daughters…thanks to Feminism, The Man Factory had gone into receivership long ago and was shut down. Yes that’s right, Masculinity Inc. was forced into bankruptcy, the workers laid off, the assembly lines stopped, the managers fired, and the CEO reassigned. This is why there is a dearth of ‘good men’ out there in the world and why some of you are now so worried about whom ‘Precious’ is going to marry.



Why do you act so surprised?

You are so worried that your lovely little girl won’t marry a strapping young man, yet you wonder how on God’s Green Earth a man was produced in the first place…a REAL man that is? Did you really wonder if they just sprouted out from the ground all on their own like grass or rain from the heavens? As an FYI, water doesn’t magically come from your taps you know; there is a complex network of….oh eff it, never mind. I just find it very hard to believe that any reader of the manosphere, male or female, would be so obtuse to think that morally upstanding men will magically appear as soon as it’s time for their daughters to date and then marry.

Men aren’t born per se…they are MADE. The many hard working employees on the assembly line shaped young boys into moral and upstanding adults. They where shown the value of treating a woman the right way and shunning the evils of the negative excesses of life. Which are very tempting but also very damaging. They where rewarded for good and honest behavior, which may not have been glamorous, but they where taught to see past the glitz and find the reward in good honest work. “Sure that sexy maven got your motor running in the worst way, but what sort of wife would she make?” Was one of the most deeply set lines of code rooted into the subconscious of boys while Masculinity Inc. was in full production. “Only The Best For Society” was their motto and by George where they going to achieve this vision.

Masculinity Inc. produced many men in the past, hardworking, loyal, moral men who stood by their families by and large. Yes, there where indeed some models whom where definitely defective and it was a shame that these faulty models did in some cases negatively affect some unsuspecting buyers. This cannot be overstated, the price that some women had to pay at the hands of the defective men where horrific indeed and should never go unnoticed. The goal of Masculinity Inc. was to minimize the amount of ‘defective’ men produced, the abusers, cheaters, and lazy irresponsible layabouts who chose to waste away their productive efforts on fruitless lusts, which didn’t benefit their families or society.   

They where more harm then good to anyone or anything, this does have to be recognized for what it was.

However, the largest success of Masculinity Inc. wasn’t limited to the training and programming the young men in the past received as their maturation process occurred, but also a strong reinforcement from society at large was embedded to continue the conditioning obtained from the factory. Thus, ‘good men’ where rewarded for being such and defective models where punished to maintain numbers. No one wanted more defective models or a decrease in  'good' models right?

Then something happened…that ‘innocent’ new order which was coming over the horizon…FEMINISM had happened. It started out innocently enough and the CEO of Masculinity Inc. decided that perhaps their product needed a little ‘tweaking’ in light of this new ‘enlightened’ way of thinking. Women simply wanted equality and their request seemed more than fair.  Perhaps Masculinity Inc. needed to make some adjustments to their ‘training’ process in order to alleviate the obvious ‘oppression’ so many women felt. So sensitivity and empathy where now encoded and masculinity was...‘toned down’ a tad.

It wasn’t enough, and more changes ‘needed’ to be made. Masculinity Inc. had a ‘Sensitivity Consultant’ hired and many more changes to the product line lay in store for the company. What started out as a ‘brave new frontier’ of equality and a more nurturing male presence constructed by Masculinity Inc. turned into the very thing, which forced the great company to close their doors years later.  This consultant had enough power to veto anything and everything, which didn’t jive with the new ‘emancipated female and supporting male’ ideal, and many of Masculinity Inc.’s corporate standards where outright, removed or supplanted with softened and unfortunately utterly useless new values and models.

Soon a much larger and more powerful incarnation of the 'Emancipated Female' emerged which had powerful government backing, and stated that Masculinity Inc. was incapable of changing adequately enough for the 'new' females ideals and unfortunately, Masculinity Inc. which was already suffering huge losses and ever climbing corporate debt was forced to close it’s doors. All that remains are the fragmented former workers and associates of this once great global corporation which did it’s best to produce hardworking young men to replace their older cohorts. Now it's nothing more than a fond memory. These former workers try to continue on in the old conventions but they face mountains of red tape as many had signed a competition clause NOT to continue in the old M.I, traditions after the dissolution of the company.

No stone was left unturned to ensure that Masculinity Inc. was all but destroyed. Many former workers wondered what exactly the issue was when it came to what this company represented.

What’s the point of all this to all those wistful but foolish people wondering where all the ‘good men have gone?’. Masculinity Inc. was simply MEN teaching the young boys of their culture how to be men. Fathers, Scout Leaders, MALE teachers, Coaches, MALE church leaders, and even older teens that where farther along in the maturation process ALL lent a helping hand in shaping the younger male generation. They where doing one thing which women fail catastrophically to do...TEACH BOYS HOW TO BE MEN, and there isn't even ONE valid study which proves that women can do it....NOT ONE. 

These men where actually rewarded for participating in the positive upbringing of boys and where punished for not doing so. Masculinity Inc. went the way of the Do-Do because fathers have been ripped from their children, and a perverted form of Femi-Masculinity, which the indoctrinated believe is somehow superior even though as the years pass it becomes fairly obvious that it is inferior at best and criminal at worst, has supplanted masculinity in virtually every way shape and form. Many men grow up to be shadows of their potential as positive Male Role Models are scarce and genuine Masculinity is not just ignored, but vilified to the highest level. If you are a man and you wish to associate with the young, it’s fairly obvious you are a pedophile so you best keep to yourself and follow the female’s lead when it comes to the young, both female and male. Of course male role models are displayed as insufferable idiots who are lucky to even deserve female attention and young uninitiated men view this as normal.

Why wouldn’t they, what exactly is ‘normal’ to them when you consider the void that is left with Masculinity Inc’s demise?

Many men are now polarized in their development, they are either embittered ‘nice guys’ who may even go their own way or they have turned to the Dark Side and become players and PUA’s. Players are now rewarded with sex and lots of it with beautiful women; ‘Good Men’ are punished for their desire to actually cater to a woman’s needs. The reward and punishment prototype, which was Masculinity Inc’s calling card, has been perverted and distorted to further female ‘enlightenment’ at the expense of the ‘good man’ mold which was in such demand in the past.

You wonder where all the ‘good men’ have gone? The factory shut it’s doors and production has been stalled ever since then. Sadly the morons with children who WISH their females marry a good man don’t wish it reopened amongst the governing bodies who ensure that it doesn't. Which is the reason why I say this to every woman, every PERSON who is ‘concerned’ about the needs of their daughters. If you care one whit about the future of your precious, you are simply flushing it down the toilet when you ignore men and their current needs. Bluntly, if you care about your daughter, then you need to care about men. These ideals are NOT mutually exclusive and it’s high time many realized this new reality. Money doesn’t grow on trees…neither do ‘MEN’.


Thursday, August 11, 2011


Quick ‘story’ folks.

Here’s the deal.  In this day and age, many men don’t understand what it means to be the head of their household. As I’ve said before, I’m a married man who is taking care of someone else’s children so you can take from this what you will but I will post this anyway.

Now to the sitch, MEN LEAD. Consider this.

Listen gang, what would happen if you where looking through the classifieds and came across a hyper-exotic sports car for an unimaginable price? You cannot believe your luck and you contact the seller. Your heart leaps over the moon as he tells you that the car for sale still hasn’t been sold. After you pick your I Phone off the floor you tell him that you will take it!!


You’re so stoked that all day at work you are trying to keep from telling everyone that you have 'won the lottery' so to speak but you manage to keep things under you hat, but there is a sneaking suspicion that lingers in the back of your mind despite your exuberance.  “If it’s too good to be true…most likely it is!” However, you are so excited that you don’t care regardless. You grab a money order for the amount that the seller is asking for and straight after work, you head for your appointment with destiny.


Well, you arrive at the house in question, you see the seller's abode with s ‘normal’ car in the front as your heart races as what is in the one car garage and your ticket to your dreams. You push the doorbell and your heart stops.

“OMG…OMG…I’ve always dreamed of having X car and GAWD…I’m going to have it…OMG!!!”

The seller opens the door and your life flashes before your eyes.

“Hello…are you Y” He asks.

You blubber out some sort of response and mention something about a money order for the FULL AMOUNT he had asked for.

“Great!!” he exclaims let’s take a look at it!

After doing your best not to pee your pants you silently follow him to his garage. Your heart stops (again, isn’t that a serious health issue?) as the garage door opens as you regard “Black Beauty” in all it’s glory but something is now screaming in the back of your head.

Anticlimactic, well…let’s see.

You may never have been around a super car before, however, you notice what may not be ‘right’ before you comprehend what IS right. This car seems awfully small for the super car of your dreams and your walk around it as your subconscious continually states “GET THE @$#@# OUT!!”. You can’t place what’s wrong but you never know due to your inexperience and you hope against hope that you are wrong.

“Can I take it for a spin?” happens to come out of your mouth before you even consider the consequences.

“Sure.” The seller states. “Hop in.” as he offers you the keys.

You take the keys hungrily as you jump into ‘the seat’ and salivate as what this well honed machine can do, or you pray that it will do.


After the seller takes shotgun, you turn the engine over and your spirit sinks.

‘WHAT THE #@#@$!!” Crosses your mind. A car like this should rattle you so bad that your grandfather should sit up in the cemetery, but you don’t feel that sort of ‘power’ as the car lurches to life. You try your best to control your grimace as you put the car in drive and command in into the street. Yes, you have never driven an exotic sports car in your life, BUT as much as you haven’t, you also expect mind blowing performance which would speak to a part of you which you always comprehend when reading old car magazines when you where younger.

As you meander your way onto the highway or interstate, the seller states something which you innately know.

“By the way, this is a KIT CAR, not really a real XXX car. I spent a lot of time on this project and it looks 90% like the real thing. It only has a 4-banger in it, but I have  worked on the engine so it moves much faster than other small displacement engines.”

AHEM!!! What do you do gang?

How many of you would be disappointed? How many of you would feel cheated because of this turn of events? How many of you men would feel like even though you where feeling exotic leather in your hands as your turned the wheel of this ‘car’ that you would feel like you where taken for a ride before you even turned on the ignition? What would you say to the seller? I’m willing to bet that you would suddenly make up a plausible excuse for the lack of funds for this ‘exotic’ and return it to his garage learning a valuable lesson about life…no?

This is the point gang…women feel this very same way when a man DOESN’T take charge. No matter what the Lamestream media states…MEN lead, WOMEN follow. When men do not take their natural place in the hierarchy…women feel the exact same way that our hero in the story would feel.

Stop apologizing for being a man, if there is one thing a man can learn from being on the manosphere, it’s that he…has…to…lead. No apologies, and damn it, stop apologizing for the very aspects of manhood that women actually find attractive!!!!


Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Ride or get Rode on…

The very first time I had ever heard this saying was in a video game of all places. Def Jam Fight For New York was the title and the main antagonist; Crow, played by Snoop Dogg, was explaining his underhanded dealings to the player-controlled character. As any man can guess, this is the underlying law of nature, simply another way of stating the obvious; eat or be eaten as everyone is in a war for survival.

Every man for themselves, right?

Here is the deal; women are obsessed with power, nothing new to see here, but what I think we as men fail to realize is how this obsession in some cases manifests itself in life. Why do women seem to ignore or even enjoy male suffering at the direct hands of women by and large while ANY form of male success which simply makes women feel bad seems like a travesty? Any one on the Manosphere has encountered this sort of attitude from women. They will actively call out men as some may enjoy something as relatively harmless such as schadenfreude of a woman’s bad decisions in the SMP, but will say nothing when men are injured, disenfranchised, or maimed and find humor in such a horrific fate.

Why do women do this?

Ride or get Rode on is their attitude about the situation gang, do not forget this one simple fact. A man ‘hurting’ a woman is seen as a display of ‘male superiority’ and a reminder to them about the evil ‘Patriarchy’ while any woman’s victory over anything male related (no matter how horrific) is seen as ‘taking back their power’ or ‘sticking it to the man’, reason, fairness, or consequence need not apply. We’ve all understood the idea of NAWALT that yes, not all women will abuse the system and castrate their hubbies physically or financially, but how many women stand up to even disagree when any man has faced a gross miscarriage of justice? The crickets are the only audience from womankind during any sort of travesty men face, and then these same crickets become deafening when womynkind actually attack men for disagreeing with said injustice.

Take a look at this example from a support group for Catherine Becker on Facebook (H/T Scarecrow.)

Karin O'Connell wrote:
Catherine Kieu Becker is my hero!!!!! ♥ her!!! :-) its high time we girls send a message 2 all the boys out there!! U r not in control anymore!! U boys better b good or us girls r gunna go Catherine Kieu Becker on u all in a heartbeat!! :-)

She's so awesome 2 do what all us girls have secretely wanted 2 do sooooo many times in our lives!!! :-)
(emphasis mine)
This is what I’m referring to exactly, women are reveling in their obvious power over men because this to them is proof positive that men no longer have the same dominance they once had over them. Remember gents, we men have rarely if ever exalted a serious negative situation which ever befell a woman. 
As I stated before, supremacy is womankind’s only means of protecting themselves from male domination, so men really need to understand this when dealing with Feminism.  This is an attitude that Western men need to recognize for what it is and realize that women will never change so long as it works to their benefit, or more importantly, DOESN’T work to their detriment. Feminism isn't about equality, it's about supremacy full stop.