Earlier today a co-worker, ER, sidled up to me with his
android phone in his hand.
“Wanna see the latest one?” He says with a small smirk.
“Sure!” I said with a smile.
He plays with his phone and then shows me the Facebook page
of a very cute woman, I’d peg her as a 7. He seems somewhat enthused about her,
as he described her attributes, but not overly so, he didn’t overdo it, then
again he never does…anymore. See ER always gets this way when he first meets a
girl, he has high standards, and as soon as a girl p!sses him off, he bounces
because he simply doesn’t have the patience to deal with it. Moreover, he knows
one more thing; he doesn’t HAVE to deal with it.
ER wasn’t always this way, trust me on this one.
See, about 5 years ago when ER first joined the company, he
was a very geeky twenty something who was horrifically beta in every way. Don’t
worry, even he would call himself a geek, but he is a lot more confident when
he says it now. He did posses some alpha traits in that despite his thin
stature, he had taken strict martial arts training when younger and is a very
mean fighter, but you would have to pull that information out of him like a
dentist pulls teeth. He doesn’t brag about that sort of thing, which makes you
wonder just how dangerous he really is. Well, years ago he caught his serious
girlfriend cheating on him, literally walked in on it (not physical, yet) and
broke up with her but sadly had gone from the frying pan straight into the fire
soon after! His rebound put him through a vicious roller coaster and sadly,
during a point in his life where he would have sorely needed some support.
Let’s just say that ER and I have had many talks about his
sitch over the years and that dude was tested by some very serious infernos.
Well, to be honest, after he let this three alarm fire he
called a girlfriend go, something about him had changed drastically. He had
told me that he simply no longer cared, that he used to live to make women
happy, and now he honestly didn’t give a flying sh!t any longer, now it was
about him. All of a sudden, ER went from being in a monogamous relationship and
being treated like crap, to showing me pictures of various women he was dating,
and MANY of them too. Let’s just say that this greater beta has embraced his
inner alpha and it has done wonders for the guy.
Let me tell you this bit of information; just like my former manager I spoke of (who has moved on to greener pastures with a better position
outside my company) he has never spent ANY time on an MRA site, but he grasps
the contemporary male situation VERY well regardless. We’ve had many
discussions on the topic of women and relationships and you’d think he’d poured
over virtually every site on the Manosphere with the level of information he has.
Don’t get me wrong, when he’s in a committed relationship, he’s faithful
through and through, but when he isn’t, you are nothing but a notch on his belt
UNLESS you prove otherwise.
Actually, I should restate that; you are nothing but a notch
but he will keep you there with the chance of becoming more UNLESS you prove
that you are unworthy. You should see how many have been unworthy; like I said
he has high standards and realizes that this is HIS game.
The bottom line, the crap that he would have gladly accepted
years ago, doesn’t even register on his radar now. In truth, his dating life
reads like something out of the Manosphere’s dos and don’ts for women. Women
giving it up too early and begging him to come back the night after, older
women chasing after him like an addict for their next fix and it goes on and on.
He’s a young man in his early 30’s who has had women indirectly show him just how
powerful he really is in the dating market, and now he is taking advantage of
it. He was the sort of guy who lived to make a woman happy, now he goes through
them with an attitude similar to a manager at a job interview. He wasn’t like this before ladies; guess who made him that
way?
Consider that the next time you lament over where "The Nice Guys Have Gone." They're still there honey, they just changed their approach.
Omnipitron
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